Valentine’s Day One Word One Line Q&A | South Asian Christian Couples | Anu And Abhijeet Lakra |

My Name Is Anu. I Am Married To Abhijeet Lakra For Almost 14 Years.

1. Name A Love Story You Watched Together That You Cried A Lot?
   We Don’t Watch Love Stories Together. We However Have Watched A Lot Of Comedy And Suspense Thriller Together. Instead Of Crying, We Used To Laugh Together Or I Used To Hide Behind Him During Suspense Thriller Action Scenes.
   
   
2. Name A Love Story Movie You Watched Together That Your Spouse Cried A Lot?
   Abhijeet Has Never Cried Watching Any Movie. We Watched Tujhe Meri Kasam (Meaning My Swear To You Or On My Honor) FOUR Times In The FIVE Days At A Theatre. We Watched It Because Of Clean Humour. He Laughed So Much.
   
   
3. Which Animal, Bird Or Reptile Best Describes Your Spouse?
   Giraffe Because Abhijeet Is Tall And Graceful.
   
   
4. What Is Your Favourite Love Song?
   I Don’t Have Any Favourite Love Song.
   
   
5. How Many Times A Week Do You Say “I Love You” To Your Spouse? Be Honest.
   I Think I Hardly Say It. Most Of The Time I Reply To Him “I Love You Too.”
   
   
6. What Is One Thing You Wish Changed In Your Spouse?
   Very Hard To Think. Can’t Think Of Any Now.
   
   
7. How Would Your Spouse/Family Describe You?
   Warden.
   
   
8. Is Your Marriage Arranged Or Love?
   Love.
   
   
9. Which Is Your Love Language?* Gary Chapman, Ph.D., In His Book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret To Love That Lasts, List Five Love Languages Of Ways Of Expressing And Receiving Love: Words Of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts Of Service, And Physical Touch.
   My Love Language Is Acts Of Service.
   
   
10. Name A Favourite Bible Verse On Love That Has Impacted You.
    1 John 4:18 There Is No Fear In Love; But Perfect Love Casts Out Fear, Because Fear Involves Torment. But He Who Fears Has Not Been Made Perfect In Love.
    
    
11. What Is The Best Advice On Love You’ve Ever Been Given?
    Forgive And Forget. There Is Less Time To Love When We Argue. Why Waste Time Arguing?
    
    
12. Describe Briefly Your Most Unforgettable Valentine Day Memory Thus Far.
    Never Celebrated At All.
    
    
13. How Do You Plan To Spend Valentine Day This Year?
    No Plans. Spending It Like Other Normal Day With Family.
    
    
14. Any Last Thoughts You Want To Write.
    I Just Want To Say That I Love Abhijeet And I Am Very Thankful And Grateful That God Brought Him In My Life. Life Is So Fun With Him.

My Name Is Abhijeet Lakra. I Am Married To Anu Lakra For 14 Years In 2 Month’s Time.

1. Name A Love Story You Watched Together That You Cried A Lot?
   I Have Never Enjoyed Love Stories From The Start. So, I Don’t Think I Went To Watch Any Movie With My Wife Thinking It To Be A Love Story. But We Have Watched Lot Of Comedy, Adventure, Thriller, Suspense And Drama.
   
   
2. Name A Love Story Movie You Watched Together That Your Spouse Cried A Lot?
   I Am Not A Love Story Movie Person. I Don’t Remember Any.
   
   
3. Which Animal, Bird Or Reptile Best Describes Your Spouse?
   Can’t Think Of An Animal. Have Never Thought That Way. But Yes, When I Think Of Proverbs 31:15 Onwards, I Can Relate It To Anu.
   
   
4. What Is Your Favourite Love Song?
   I Am Not A Song Story Or A Love Song Person. So, Nothing In My List.
   
   
5. How Many Times A Week Do You Say “I Love You” To Your Spouse? Be Honest.
   Definitely, Not Zero. Also Definitely Not A Lot. Somewhere May Be Definitely Minimum ONE Time Per Day.
   
   
6. What Is One Thing You Wish Changed In Your Spouse?
   She Is Too Humble. Mostly, She Does Not Think Others Can Be Wrong Or Others Can Do Wrong.
   
   
7. How Would Your Spouse/Family Describe You?
   They Think Anu Chose The Best.
   
   
8. Is Your Marriage Arranged Or Love?
   Love.
   
   
9. Which Is Your Love Language?* Gary Chapman, Ph.D., In His Book The 5 Love Languages: The Secret To Love That Lasts, List Five Love Languages Of Ways Of Expressing And Receiving Love: Words Of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts Of Service, And Physical Touch.
   My Love Language Is Continuous Chit Chats In Breaks Between Talks. Whenever. Wherever. Travelling. Bus Ride. MRT Ride.
   
   
10. Name A Favourite Bible Verse On Love That Has Impacted You.
    1 Corinthians 13:4-8
    Love Is Patient, Love Is Kind. It Does Not Envy, It Does Not Boast, It Is Not Proud. It Does Not Dishonor Others, It Is Not Self-Seeking, It Is Not Easily Angered, It Keeps No Record Of Wrongs. Love Does Not Delight In Evil But Rejoices With The Truth. It Always Protects, Always Trusts, Always Hopes, Always Perseveres. Love Never Fails.
    
    
11. What Is The Best Advice On Love You’ve Ever Been Given?
    Love Is Not Finding A Perfect Person. But Seeing An Imperfect Person Perfectly. Good Marriages Are Made Of Two Good Forgivers.
    
    
12. Describe Briefly Your Most Unforgettable Valentine Day Memory Thus Far.
    I Don’t Celebrate Valentine’s Day. But Every Day, I Try To Love My Wife By My Words, Thoughts And Actions.
    
    
13. How Do You Plan To Spend Valentine Day This Year?
    I Don’t Celebrate Valentine’s Day. So, No Plans.
    
    
14. Any Last Thoughts You Want To Write.
    I Am Blessed That God Gave Me Anu As My Life Partner And My Best Friend.
    

THANK YOU ANU AND ABHIJEET LAKRA FOR YOUR HONEST ANSWERS.

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