Abusers are slick. They all abuse you for years and everyone else likes them. No one believes your entire family could abuse you. They are covert narcissists. They gather together against God’s chosen vessel. They slander you together. They are liars. These are all spiritual demonic entities who use them by their own will. Your family members are accommodating the demons through their own lies, bitterness and hate.
They are ALL used by satan to destroy you and stop you. God sees how giving and loving you are. HE KNOWS! He sees you are hated. He sees your beautiful heart. He knows they slander you. You are on FIRE for God and they can’t stand you! Sadly they will all die off one by one, so stop letting anyone ruin your life. But as for you, forgive them, pray for their salvation and keep doing what’s right and you will be rewarded by God in eternity. Be strong in the Lord and the power of His might! You are not alone. Many of us as Christians suffer this way around the world, including me.
Luke 21:16
“But you will be betrayed even by parents and brothers and relatives and friends, and they will put some of you to death,..”
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Beloved of God, satan will use ANYBODY he can to ATTACK you. Especially those closest to you. Those are the ones he uses the greatest to hurt you. Why? Because he knows they matter to you and strangers don’t. If any person in your life has an area they have not surrendered to the Lord, backslidden, or just not saved at all . . . WATCH OUT! The devil WILL use them to come at you!!! Ohhhhh yes he will!
What is the solution? Forgive them daily, and keep an arm’s length from them no matter if it’s your parent, child, siblings, close friend or in laws. If it’s your spouse, it varies in each situation on how to handle it. God has not called us to be a punching bag. It’s not spiritual to allow someone to abuse you. It’s just plain stupid. In fact, it’s SIN to allow abuse in your life. They will use the “Christian card” on you to manipulate you back into the friend or family evil dynamic. Don’t fall for it.
Proverbs 16:17
“Good people stay away from evil. By watching what they do, they protect their lives.”
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The worst kind of friend to have is someone who is seemingly very sweet to you in your face while talking behind your back. I’ve had those. The Lord always showed me beforehand. I would confront them and they would LIE about it. You see, when the LORD shows you the hate behind your back, He is getting ready to remove that person. I know it’s disappointing but it’s truly the best for you. I don’t know about you, but I only want people in my life who have my back and those who truly love me, not users.
Why would you fight for someone who clearly will not defend you? That includes family too. Otherwise, good riddens and praise God. Our heavenly Father PROTECTS us from wolves in sheep’s clothing. He is the Great Shepherd.
Proverbs 16:28
“A dishonest man spreads strife, and a whisperer separates close friends.”
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The many people who have abused me throughout my life, have told others that I abused them with the very abuse they abused me with. That’s what satan’s people do. They are liars. They are slanderers just like their father. I have rarely encountered an abusive person who has repented and humbled themselves, that have ever said THEY were the abusers. It’s ALWAYS the other person, not them.
The narcissists call YOU the narcissist. In time, it will all come out. Just spend time with them alone and on the phone almost daily. You’ll find out. The relationship won’t last. It’s the FRUIT. If it doesn’t come out in this lifetime, God will expose them in eternity. People can hide if you only speak and see them intimately a few times a month. They walk undetected in and out of your church too. Demons can lie dormant for years. No one will believe you, because YOU are their demonic assignment. It’s okay. You have the victory. God’s got you!
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Narcissistic Manipulators will use Your Christian Faith AGAINST YOU. I dated and/or married a guy who would abuse me and then cry and beg me to forgive him. It was in a cycle of relationships before the Lord delivered me. I would say, “I forgive you but we are done”. He would twist the Bible Scriptures to make me feel guilt and shame and make me feel like I didn’t forgive him because I didn’t want him around me. Instead of looking at himself and his sins, he would turn it on me to carry the entire consequence.
Crying doesn’t mean someone has repented. Forgiveness does not mean allowing abuse back and reconciling with your narcissistic family, friends or ex’s. They will make you look like the evil one and they are the angels. They want to control you (witchcraft) and they can’t so they will hate you.
Jeremiah 9:4
“Let everyone guard against his neighbor; do not trust any brother, for every brother deals craftily, and every friend spreads slander.”
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